Tuesday, June 23, 2009

I must be living right

Education does not come without sacrifice.

People at school will say to me "Don't your kids get underfoot? Don't they bug you when you try to study?"

And I can honestly say, No, they don't. Because Addie and Jake are glued to the computer (on line or video game hooked) and Tom is playing with the Wii. Liz goes to play with a friend, mostly. The hilarity begins when Liz comes home and wants a turn on the Wii.

"Moooo-oooom. I want a turn on the Wiiiiii." (I'm convinced it was a diabolical Japanese linguistic plot that made that word so easy to whine.)

"Did you tell Tom about it?" (and off Liz goes, giving me a 30 second respite).

"Moooo-ooom. He says he's in the middle of something and he can't quit."

(Sigh. Eye roll.) "Tell Tom I want to talk to him." I realize using a fellow child as a messenger is probably bad parenting, but it gives me about another 60 seconds of study time before Tom plods sullenly up the stairs to hear the same. stupid. lecture I gave him yesterday.

"Haven't you been doing this since you got home? Isn't it true that Liz hasn't done it at all today? Why should she wait while you finish this level/battle this bad guy/find this save station?"

The lecture and rebuttals go on, but it's depressing enough to have shared this much of it.

In the past, I have told my classmates that I am willing to let their little minds fry while I'm in school if it means I can study unmolested. It hasn't played that way, plus their little minds are frying.

So today I declared a freedom from electronics day. They've been bored, they've wished I could be swallowed by the earth, but 3 of them are at a park with friends, and the fourth is out front with a buddy. None of them are plugged into anything (and I'm spending valuable study time writing a blog).

Electronic freedom day is about to become a weekly event!

2 comments:

  1. Ha ha! I also use children as messengers, and they so often deliver a message I did not authorize. And their brains are also frying. We didn't bother updating our analog TV, but with the computer and DVD player, they still spend way too much time plugged into electronics. I'm going to follow your example and institute more Electronic Freedom days.

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